DiscoverThe Phu PodcastYou Are Ordinary, Maybe Above Average And That's Okay. | The Phu Podcast Season 2 Episode 2
You Are Ordinary, Maybe Above Average And That's Okay. | The Phu Podcast Season 2 Episode 2

You Are Ordinary, Maybe Above Average And That's Okay. | The Phu Podcast Season 2 Episode 2

Update: 2025-11-21
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In this episode, we challenge one of the loudest messages in modern self-help culture: “You can be anything if you just believe and work hard enough.”

The truth? Most of us won’t become millionaires, influencers, CEOs, or world-changers — and that doesn’t mean we’ve failed. It simply means we’re human.

I explore how hustle culture and red-pill ideology push unrealistic expectations and leave many people feeling inadequate, anxious, and burnt out. We’ve been convinced that being ordinary is something to escape — when in reality, it might be something to appreciate.

What we cover in this episode:

  • The dark side of “anyone can make it” mentality
  • Why comparison culture ruins our ability to feel satisfied
  • The beauty and value of living an ordinary life
  • A global perspective: what we call average is luxury elsewhere
  • How to find purpose without needing to be exceptional

Maybe success isn’t about becoming extraordinary — maybe it’s about noticing what we already have.

Because to millions of people around the world, the life we call ordinary is the life they’re dreaming of.

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You Are Ordinary, Maybe Above Average And That's Okay. | The Phu Podcast Season 2 Episode 2

You Are Ordinary, Maybe Above Average And That's Okay. | The Phu Podcast Season 2 Episode 2

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